Parents evenings

Frequently asked questions

I have other younger children I have to bring with me but they can be distracting. What can I do?

The best thing is to contact the school and ask what they recommend. Many schools now offer creche facilities during parents' evenings, so check to see if there are any arrangements to look after young children when you are meeting with the teacher. Do you know any other parents in a similar situation who will also be going to the parents' evening? Perhaps you could help each other. 

I am worried about going to the parents' evening because I have had letters from the school saying my son has been misbehaving.

If you have not discussed this with the school before it may be helpful to contact the school and ask if you can have a special time to meet someone. You might feel nervous at doing this especially if your contact is usually only at parents' evenings. However, it's always better to talk things over. If you do not want to go on your own ask a friend or relative to go with you. Some schools have home-school workers, whose job is specifically to liaise with parents. They can meet with you to discuss concerns.

I am a shift worker and can't always get time off work. I go to as many school evenings as I can but have missed quite a lot. I don't want the school to think I don't care.

Many parents find attending school meetings difficult because of work and other responsibilities. Contact the school and explain the situation – they may be able to arrange an appointment for you at a more convenient time.

I found that I couldn't follow what the teachers were saying about Standard Grades, Intermediate and Access subjects. How can I find out more?

The school should be able to provide you with information leaflets about this but, if you prefer, you can find guidelines produced by the Scottish Qualifications Authority on Parentzone.

Can my child be present at the parents' evening? My sister took my niece to a meeting with the teacher at her school. Our school doesn't do this but it seems like a good idea. Should I speak to the school about this?

Teachers, parents and pupils have found this to be really helpful as it allows everyone to hear what is being said and sometimes allows misunderstandings to be cleared up. However, first of all, does you child want to be there? They very often jump at the chance. If yes, ask the school to allow them to be with you during the discussion with the teachers. Your suggestions may encourage the school and parent body to consider revising arrangements for parents' evening and to include all children.